ERIC

How would I describe this man?

Larger than life. He was 6 feet 8 inches tall, with a personality that matched his body. Since our fathers were brothers ,we grew up very close in location and our hearts. We had so many great times together, he was the closest thing to a brother I will ever have.

When Eric was nine years old, his mother passed away from cancer. He, his sister and fathers lives were forever changed.

As a young boy, Eric was rambunctious and somewhat hard to deal with. He had a mind of his own and nobody was going to change that.

As an adult he was tough in many ways, all while being one of the most sensitive men I ever knew. He was kind, helpful and always the life off the party.

I would say that he felt he had a hard life, and sometimes took the wrong path. He felt that the world owed him in some respects because of what had happened to his mother.

We had a strong connection because we both felt like we were the black sheep of the family, neither of us feeling like we had a home or support. Looking back, I know that we did, we just didn’t recognize it at the time.

As we got older we seemed to grow in different directions. I still was very close to him but became frustrated with his choices. I was learning from my mistakes while he seemed to be stuck in his.

On June 18th 2011, Eric passed away in a car accident, he was almost 40. I remember my Dad calling to tell me the news and how devastated I was. I was so sad that he never found true happiness and peace. He seemed to struggle every step of the way, not being able to be honest with himself or with his feelings. It makes me extremely sad to this day.

He was so loved by so many and I wish he could have known that. His death left so many regrets and such a void for those close to him. Words left unspoken and wounds left to heal.

Life is a precious thing. It can break us, or it can teach us and be magnificent if we let it.

There are no do overs, this life gives us one chance to get it right. No matter the hardships or hurdles, remember we can get past anything with perseverance.

I will always miss you, Eric.